Thursday, April 2, 2009

CLINICAL FINISH..You Throw But I Take the height and start to Grow

Success mantra has striked me strongly in helping me not succumbing to the short of opportunities and helped me get the superiority over the socialistic elements in bringing smile on my face.
Noticed lot of “S” in my statement??? Yes because I have done what I had promised myself to do...Yes because I have overcome the critics...Yes because I proved that everything happens for a reason…Yes because “ I have a reason to celebrate “
Bitter moments have turned better in bringing the best in me to beat the heat of getting better than the best. I know what it takes to be a part of bitter moments, and I want you to know.
The day when I saw myself among thousands in crowded Bangalore, with a file having my certificates, not in search of job though but to get appointed to my new and the first employer. Colossal structures with the big names (exuberance on my face) written on it and I thought I would be working in a kind of similar ambience. I din’t see anything the way I had imagined till the day which shook me with a statement (YOU ARE FIRED...!) even which I had never imagined. I never felt the effect of being dumped; rather I was high on confidence which gives me the reason now to celebrate. In no time, I was about to spend my last hours in the place where I never intended to spend a minute while serving for the firm. No idea what was happening in my life. I was not aware of where I was heading to.I could feel the change, change that was asking me questions. For which my only answer was “I DON’T KNOW “. The change that was positive and was happening for a reason. The reason which I din’t know.
The day after the D-day (My last working day), I felt I was indeed upset with the proceedings in my life, which I never wanted to surpass my jovial nature. I had my words conveyed to all with whom I had worked with. It goes like this,,,
“Dear all, Unusual circumstances but usual procedure to send the last working day intimation. It’s been quite a remarkable journey till now. I dint know what the “corporate " is all about when i came here. Now i know how it operates in the interest of employees. I would be pleased to say that i have gained a lot from here. May be it is not written in my fate to apply it here. Many aquitances and many memorable and unforgettable people, i am taking with me from here for ever. There is not a single occasion i have regretted from braking up with the company. The dream which i had dreamt is looking more appropriate now. Finally i would like to thank each one of you for supporting directly or indirectly during my tenure in ********.
Very soon my new official ID will be updated to you...
The game has just begun, NOW... “

The moment I dropped my pen, I was on my way to give meaning to my words. Today I have a reason for having been said the words, what was an act of arrogance. The act which has showered the fragrance of hope and given me the new face of turning things my way. When you need advice everyone are ready to help you but when you need help very few come forward. I am fortunate enough with the quite few being more than handful. I have been telling about myself in doing what I had intended to do, but the opportunity was made open by the help of those few.

Linkin park sounds loud in my ears with words like “in the end it doest even matter how hard you try”. When all ends well, the struggle goes hiding. But what if I haven’t had the success; what if I was still working for the same employer; this is when words like “everything happens for a reason” find accountable. Everyone puts their effort to their threshold but not everyone finds the success as the few get it. It is probably not because of their ability or any other factor, it is because of the reason that only effort is not important but knowing where to make an effort in ones life makes all the difference.

I will end up by giving you a known fact. After failing twice, Edmund Hillary challenged Mount Everest “I will come again and conquer you” because as a mountain you can’t grow but as a human, I CAN.
You are a seed now, do make the showers of confidence to grow higher and higher.

You Might be wondering why i am so exited. I have my new employer with exiting offer. hiphip..hurray...!!!!!

Cheers…!!
Pradeep

Sunday, November 30, 2008

The NoN-ReDunDanT LiFe....

The NoN-ReDunDanT LiFe

Birth takes place only once….
But the day repeats on its own to make u aware…
“I “am the reason to live for….!!!!!!!!!

The purest of your tears come out to open your eyes for the first time to make others happy. I say “PUREST “in the sense that the tear has no reason when you have just made your entry. U start your journey by crying and end by making others cry for U. The only two occasions where the tears are the purest. I am trying to explain you that, there are very few occasions where one live for others. There is “I” behind everything what you do.
This is the thesis I believe which everyone are trying to hide within themselves. By doing so they have forgotten the fact that the life is a “NoN-ReDunDanT” entity.
During your early stages of life, Most of you might have heard your parents saying, Time once past cannot be regained. It’s the stereotype phrase used by all the parents to make u feel the importance of time in regard to the competency in the present era. Everyone wants to compete and so he feels time is very precious in order to make others less competitive to u.
Again you are giving importance to time, for others feelings but not for yours.
The leaving example I can give on this regard is the present trend of educational hierarchy that’s being followed in order to be in the race of financial position. You start with the imagination of taking the front most seat in an aircraft ( say pilot ) but end up taking the backseat and contend yourself to just being a passenger. You may argue by showing your superiority of being a guest to the front runner but you never accept the fact that you have also become the guest to your ideas, not the host.
H A R D W O R K = 98% A T T I T U D E = 100% might seem like simple mathematics behind the logic, But it is very much true. A person with right attitude can always overshadow the hard work of a person who is low on attitude. Attitude may be seen in different contexts. Your attitude towards work, your attitude towards Ur family and friends, your attitude towards oneself. Personally I don’t believe having different attitudes with the changing environment. Life is the only arena to which your attitude should be pointing at.
There is nothing beyond life and there is no one beyond my life is what I truly recommend to be the definition of attitude.
By saying so I am not generalizing or encrypting the words that define attitude. You can draw your own shape within the border which you believe to be the right attitude.
There are N number of creatures on this earth, of which human beings are considered to be the superior of all. When you have got an opportunity to be the superior, make the most of it. Spiritually many believe we have 7 janmas till our soul reaches its end and also our film fraternity believes so by making OSO, KARZ etc... Trust me you don’t get a chance to prove your beliefs.
I DON’T NEED YOUR ATTITUDE, I HAVE MY OWN…!!! Should be the caption on your T-shirt. Of course there will be times you should think beyond “I “and be counted as “WE”, as your life, none of our lives are redundant.
Whatever I have said till now was my desire of how ones life should be, but even I don’t have an attitude of the kind I have expressed in my sentences. Reasons are empirical. I think this sum up my words for this race of financial position which has deviated everyone’s line of desire. After all I too am a human being and I have only one chance to express my desire as it is a “NoN-ReDunDanT LiFe”

By

Pradeep G V

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Hyderabadi biryani


Hyderabadi biryani

It was 78 kilos when I started my journey to the city of badsha’s, Hyderabad. It was quite a pleasing day with all my amigos turned up to my house for a get-to-gather. My mom’s typical south Indian menu added essence to the party.Huggs and hmm no kisses..!!, ended the party and it was time for me to leave the garden city, Bengaluru for three months.
The journey was mixed with DTS effect snoring and few cool babes, single and looking around.
Chabbes sala charminaar mien betaku mereko Marta, maa ki kiri kiri…..!!!!!!! Hope u all remember ANGREZ. As we heard this slang we were definite that we are in HYDERABAD. It was raining quite heavily in bengaluru when I started from there and was quite opposite here. Amma baboi it was around 35 deg. Regretted for carrying sweaters.
We had only 4 days to find an accommodation out of which 3 days were lost in office. We engineers are used to getting our ass burnt at the last minute and we somehow managed to find a hostel. It was LUXURY WORKING MENS HOSTEL, luxury was silent for the owners of that building, We didn’t know it and were happy to pay 3200 bucks pm. It reminded me of a typical lodge in any tourist place. I was accompanied by my two colleagues; one was from udupi and the other from Chennai.
HI-Tech city is what they used to call the place where we stayed, but it resembled more of our KR market.
Pappu chaaru is what Andhra famous for and a mouth watering dish. Trust me; it is prepared more deliciously in Andhra mess here in Bangalore than in actual Andhra.
Hotel nandini, owned by a person from Bangalore came to our rescue. The next three months our bfast was a plate idly and our dinner was M.dosa.
One good thing was, InfoTech which was never a part of our happy moments, gave a surprise with lot n lot of girls in the campus. I call it a happy moment because you can hardly find girls in a company driven with all mechanical engineers. The company bus we were traveling, InfoTech campus, and our department, all were dominated by them, only in numbers though.
And to add to this, our hostel was surrounded by many other hostels with name boards showing arundathi women’s hostel, luxury girls hostel and so on….. Hope u understood what I meant…I managed to flirt with few of the girls, which was the only bright part of the day….
Now u must be thinking my weekend’s would have gone fine with all the girls around…u are extremely wrong…It was so hot in the day n u know about girls they tend to oversee their complexion….I was left with no other choice then to stay back at the hostel..Khair we also have some concern on our complexion….
We had to beat the heat at least to get acquainted to the city and so we managed to go for a city tour and finishing it once for all rather then getting tanned every weekend and it was quite worthy to pay 150 for the trip…
The days gone by and we were burning lot of calories just to live…
And the D-day came when it was finally the farewell party…Next was a stereotype bachelors party….The next day was our journey to bengaluru….
We wanted that night to be the shortest one…But the driver had other plans…The night show started and when I was about to block my face with the blanket against the light, The title showed HAPPY DAYS…!!!…..N I dint close my eyes till it showed shubham, The END…All the agonizing moments that we spent in HYD were washed away within this 3 hours of the movie…
Ummmmmmmmmmm…!!!!! I woke up in the morning and I was back in bangaluru, the garden city ….Weighing machine showed 70 when I ended my journey….
Simple mathematics shows u the struggle for a healthy food during our stay in Hyderabad….
Traffic, cost of living, whatever may be your concerns in bengaluru, But trust me you wont get a climate better than bengaluru, you wont get a better night life than bengaluru, you wont get better hotels than in bengaluru….
That is why I say BeNgaLuRu Rocks…!!!!! Mast maJa MaDi….!!!!!!

By

Pradeep